Doors To Happiness

Tuesday, April 5, 2011

I'll keep both my kidneys, thank you!




It is true, you only need one kidney, but thanks to some great doctors and what has proved to be quite the process, I get to keep both of mine! It all started on February 24th. It was a Thursday so after my student teaching I went straight to the dance studio to teach dance lessons. By the end of my third class I was having a ton of back pain. This isn't uncharacteristic for me, I just figured I tweaked it somehow at dance. I went home took some ibuprofen, had dinner, visiting teachers, was feeling okay. Chad went to the library and I dozed off while working on some lesson plans. When I woke up the pain was back and worse, I spent the rest of the night throwing up and in a crazy amount of pain.


One thing led to another and I reluctantly agreed to go to the emergency room. My mom picked me up and so the adventure began. After a few blood tests and a C.T. scan they informed me that I had a kidney infection, the infection was in my blood, and my kidney was three times the size of normal, meaning there was something wrong with my ureter that was causing urine to back up and my kidney to be enlarged. This is something I was born with most likely and has been going on for a while. (explaining my years of back pain).


They pumped me full on antibiotics and a spent the rest of the day waiting to hae a procedure where they put a stint or a tube from my kidney to my bladder that would help the infection to drain. I woke up form the procedure feel a lot better already. I spent the night in the hospital and was able to come home the next morning. I spent the next week taking it easy and the surgery to re-size my kidney and reconstruct and reattach my kidney was scheduled for March 28th. I was a little dissapointed to have to wait so long becuase I wasn't feeling great and that meant I had to miss my families trip to Florida, but they wanted to make sure all the infection was gone before they performend the next surgery.


Skip ahead to March 28th. I arrive at the hospital 6:30 A.M. and don the gown, booties, and hideous cap. (no pictures are provided so use your imagination, it wasn't pretty) The doctor and anesthesiologist came in, both previous ward members. They told me I was their VIP patient. They told me that htye had decided that they would give me an epidural, which I was incredibly greatful for when I woke up. Next thing I remember, I was in the recovery room, kidney fixed.


I spent a 3 days in the hospital. I spent the first day very angry(anesthesia does that to me). They wouldn't let me have anything to eat or drink and they kept waking me up every hour or so during the night. I was ready to kick some nurse butt, except I couldn't get out of bed. They let me go home on Wednesday and I'm home taking it easy with so much to be greatful for.


1)My wonderful husband. He's been nurse, maid, and chef. Most of all he's put up with my random crying for no reason. I have too many drugs in my system. I lucked out, I married and incredible man.

2) My mother, she's the best, she's been there for anything and everything.

3)The rest of the fam, I have the best relatives.

4) My friends, they're always there for me.

5) All the prayers that have been offered for me.

6) Coloring books and all of my favorite treats!

7) The "it's a boy balloon" courtesey of my cousin Tanner, brings me a good laugh.

6) Enough flowers to put on every table in my apartment.


9) A fully stocked fridge, thanks to both mothers!

Wednesday, February 9, 2011

Blessings

After a semester of not being in the schools, which was kind of depressing, I have started my student teaching, this means lots of good student stories to share. This first one I will warn you, might bring a tear to your eye, it stills does to mine and it's been almost a month, so brace yourself (madision and mother, I'm mostly talking to the two of you).
I had only been student teaching about two weeks, but of course it doesn't take long to really bond with the students you spend your days with. One little boy in particular captured a piece of my heart. He is the kind of kid who would typically get made fun of, teased, and be the brunt of every joke, but this wasn't the case with him. There was something about him that kept this from happening, maybe I should credit the kids in his class, but I think it was because he is truly the kindest individual I have ever met. Every morning he would come in and tell us good morning, usually he would follow up with, "you sure look nice today Mrs. Kelley," or something of the sort. What 5th grader makes comments like that. Needless to say, sweet little boy.
This little boy has one of the saddest home lives I have ever heard of, I won't go into details, but use your imagination. Somehow he remained polite and tender hearted. A few weeks into my student teaching he moved. On his last day he was pretty saddened by the move, he told me that he was just starting to like school and felt like he had a lot of good friends there. He asked if he could sing us a song before he left, he informed me that it was a Miley Cyrus song. I wondered how I could possibly keep from laughing through his performance. We gave him the karaoke machine microphone, and he sang so beautifully every word to "The Climb". Never been a Miley fan, but hearing this sweet little boy sing every word to this inspiring song made me cry not laugh. This little boy has everything going against him, yet he believes in himself. He truly inspired me, and made me think twice about the things I complain about, I truly am blessed!


I can almost see it
That dream I am dreaming
But there's a voice inside my head saying
"You'll never reach it"

Every step I'm taking
Every move I make feels
Lost with no direction
My faith is shaking

But I gotta keep trying
Gotta keep my head held high

There's always gonna be another mountain
I'm always gonna wanna make it move
Always gonna be a uphill battle
Sometimes I'm gonna have to lose

Ain't about how fast I get there
Ain't about what's waiting on the other side
It's the climb

The struggles I'm facing
The chances I'm taking
Sometimes might knock me down
But no, I'm not breaking

I may not know it
But these are the moments that
I'm gonna remember most, yeah
Just gotta keep going
[ From: http://www.elyrics.net/read/m/miley-cyrus-lyrics/the-climb-lyrics.html ]

And I, I got to be strong
Just keep pushing on

'Cause there's always gonna be another mountain
I'm always gonna wanna make it move
Always gonna be a uphill battle
Sometimes I'm gonna have to lose

Ain't about how fast I get there
Ain't about what's waiting on the other side
It's the climb, yeah!

There's always gonna be another mountain
I'm always gonna wanna make it move
Always gonna be an uphill battle
Somebody's gonna have to lose

Ain't about how fast I get there
Ain't about what's waiting on the other side
It's the climb, yeah!

Keep on moving, keep climbing
Keep the faith, baby
It's all about, it's all about the climb
Keep the faith, keep your faith, whoa

Tuesday, January 4, 2011

The Big Day!

Highlights From the Day:
The Temple: so perfect, so simple, so wonderful, so forever.
The snow: Light snow fell all morning and stopped just for us to take pictures, then continued to snow lightly during the luncheon, creating a perfect winter scene. It's exactly what I ordered.

The Mom/Wedding Planner: Made it possible, worked her tail off, love her. She deserves all the credit for the beauty of the day.

The food: The food at the luncheon was delicious, and cheesecake, which is my favorite was for dessert.

The parents: These are the people who made it all happen and got us where we are now.

The Siblings: New and old, couldn't have ended up with better.


The Friends: So supportive, so incredible, best friends anyone could ask for.

The Rock: My dad really knows how to bring down the house. He had everyone laughing and crying. So much love!

The Cake: Couldn't have been more beautiful.

The Dancing: We all now I never miss on opportunity to bust a move.


The Sparklers: Perfect setting for the perfect exit.

The Car: Thanks friends for making sure our car was found.


....Best of all....Marrying the love of my life!